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Lesson to Self: Don’t get involved

Comments Posted on Apr 11, 2012 11:00AM

I don’t have many close friends. I need a lot of down time, I have my children to take care of, and, frankly, the things I find interesting to talk about are pretty odd. But I do have a couple of friends I see regularly, and being friends they just taught me a useful lesson.

Common for them, I believe, is that they find me interesting, wise, and entertaining, and they don’t mind me talking about multiple dimensions and upgrading DNA. I, on the other hand, usually stay well away from giving advise unless I’m asked specifically. It works well for all.

Up until now, I’ve had the belief that it can be okay to suggest means for healing of physical problems as long as I’m not attached to my friend’s choices. The useful lesson I’ve learned is that this is not so. I do get emotionally involved, and I do become judgemental about their choices, and that is not okay.

Who am I to judge what is right for any human besides myself? It is imperative to me that I keep my balance in this, and I sometimes withdraw to regain that balance. It’s not because I love them less. It’s because I love them enough to respect their choices in life.

Lesson to Self: Only, ONLY, if my friends specifically ask for help or advice, can I offer this. At any other time I must not get involved. My reality is not better, only different. Whatever pain or difficulty they may choose to experience must flow through me like water. In that way I serve them best.

What is dis-ease and what can we heal?

Comments Posted on Apr 11, 2012 09:51AM

As always what you read here is just my way of looking at things. Use it or disregard it at your leasure 🙂

If I was to define illness / dis-ease I would say that it is the physical manifestation of a blockage in your energy system. If you look at it that way, what it implies is that you can’t heal your body without getting rid of the blockage or – if you get rid of the blockage you can heal your body.

Yesterday a friend of mine was trying to figure out how I could be having problems with osteoarthritis and not try to heal it. I gave him the image of a splinter in your hand. The wound is infected and hurts, and the splinter is still there. No amount of healing will effectively make the infection go away before the splinter is also removed.

In my case, I know exactly why I’m having problems with osteoarthritis at this point. I’ve already done my homework 🙂 My condition has returned, because I live in a very large house. When I feel responsible for repairing the house – involving odd jobs I all dislike – my knees and shoulder start to hurt. Through a coincidence it was diagnosed as osteoarthritis.

But whenever I let go of feeling I have to be the caretaker, the pain goes away. Right now it’s back because we are getting ready to sell the house , and all the odd jobs, I don’t like, have to get done. My “benifit” from this condition is that if my joints hurt, I can’t do the jobs – or so my body thinks. In this case I do them anyway.

The moment I’m done or the moment we move out, the pain will go away. And no amount of healing from myself or others will make it go away any sooner than that, because “the splinter” is still there.

If you want to assure healing, find the splinter.